Wednesday, December 8

A slap on her face

Mom and Sis had a fight last week and were in cold wars towards each other past few days. Mom and I have decided to move out from this house. I am looking for cheap houses or cheap apartment for my mom and myself and of course other rooms can be rented out. =) So if anyone have any idea of house/apartment to rent at Subang Jaya near SS15 or in Puchong, please do let me know.

Well, yesterday Mom and sis do talk and we went to Asia Café in SS15 to have our dinner. Mom told sis that we will move out. Sis did not even ask us to stay instead; she is saying she will find someone to look after her son. I know Mom feel sad but what to do? This is the fact. My sis has her own family and she can’t stay with my mom. My mom and my sis have lots of common things. They are too common. And I believe when two common people stay together, things will goes wrong. Temper, the way they talk, the heart, and so on. They are just too similar to each other. My mom slaps her last week. I know my sis is angry my mom slaps her. But, she is wrong also when she knows my mom is angry why she add salt in her wound and she even want to fight with my mom. No matter what mom is still mom right? Whatever my mom did is for us. Maybe she always thinks that when she was young, my mom did not take care of her but left her to my grandmother. And for my mom, she is upset that my sis did not even call her and my sis actually avoid her for 12 years without knowing the reasons.

From my point of view, no one is right in this. My mom has her own fault and there goes my sis. One more thing is mom is mom. No matter what she is still our mom. My mom is always bad at her mouth. But she is good in her heart. My mom always say want to move out but if my sis willing to ask her to stay, she will. However, I know, maybe when we move out everything will be better.

Let’s hope better to come

23 comments:

~SirJoe ℒℴvℯs ♥² Sherina~ said...

x.x

Philip Khor said...

ok i guess everyone has to chill

Ck said...

women war is so scary !!

Hilda Milda™ said...

Hope they will get along soon ):

sh3rina (^(@)^) said...

Ck.. yeap.. woman are scary anyways.. hahaha

Hilda.. i hope so.. =)

PrisCielLa said...

Awww. :(

sh3rina (^(@)^) said...

=(

Chuen said...

hope that things get better soon...

Kahmon said...

They will be fine... mum and daughter ma!! Right??

Hmm, u gonna stay by mum side and talk to her often. Don't let her think aside..maybe should let her know the way she talk would makes the children feel bad. Ntg to change much with your sis, she is already hv own family, she should understand ur mum's feeling, right??

stay strong girl.

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sh3rina (^(@)^) said...

Thks guys for all the comments. =)

k~^|n said...

wow..hope things get well soon.

♥Wei Wei♥ said...

Hoping all will be fine.!

cindy-leow said...

Hope things will get better. And only time can calm both of them down..

God bless!

sh3rina (^(@)^) said...

Thanks guys for all the comments. =) appreaciate! n hope they will be better

Chuckie Cotton said...

From the point of view of your mother, of cz she wanna see her daughter everyday, but yr sis might not want to , cz yr mom might sound naggy to her.. in both ways, you cant blame anyone, jz hope tht things would be fine for yr family soon.

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sh3rina (^(@)^) said...

What to do.. just hope for the best for them

y--square said...

very complicated~~~

Shuwen said...

maybe you can talk to your sister ? :/ Sorry to hear about the fight..

Mechell said...

hopefully everything will be fine for you, stay strong x

Bell's said...

wow...complicated family war...it's really hard for you to be the middle man...but take your best shot to solve this problem k?

Maggie Wong said...

dropping here from innit....As u said, thing might be better after moving out...but, family is still a family...keep strong, and love your family..^^

Maggie Wong said...

Dropping by from innit...
As you said, things might be better after moving out...As you said, mum will always be your mum...Family will always be your family too....Be strong and love your family..^^ good luck for u..

Shamin Azwar said...

i pray that both of them could get along together again..

believe me, i know exactly what u're going tru now and how u felt about this. :(

have a nice day. cheer up :)